Couldn't get any help for husband that has MS and is stiff as a board. Got burndt out after 6 1/2 years, placed in NH (one of the better I has heard, scary) under medicaid. Don't normally qualify for medicaid. Well long story short, they weren't taking good care of him. His feet started swelling up and I kept asking them to look into it. He had a sore on it and it turned into sepsis because they didn't give him medicine and only changed bandage when giving him bath 2 or 3 times a week. I do not want to place in back in NH but I can't seem to find any options. Checked again with medicaid waiver as I have been on list since early 2000. Still no money but they took him off list when went in NH. Now back on the list to wait until I die or husband. He is a vet but can't get in service connected because then they would have to saw that they misdiagnosed him in 1990.
Does anyone out there know something that I don't know. Don't even know if I could care for him alone because now he is much weaker since the sepsis. HELP!