Dear Gloria: Gail sent me a copy of the chat from last night. It gave me a chance to get to know you a little better. For some reason, I can't access topics...keep getting message, "You have performed an illegal operation and will be shut down." I don't know what's wrong. So, I have to post new topic. Gloria, you sound like a very loving and wise woman. I want you to know that you said or did nothing to hurt me or add to my pain last night in chat. You didn't know my situation. I found you to be warm and very supportive. I hope you continue to take care of yourself. And I hope that we meet again someday. If you ever need to talk...let me know...sometimes I am a really good listener. Other times, I am a good listener.