Hi all . . . so sorry if I sound negative in the following . . Mom has had knee surgery and is doing really well! in her recovery yet it's been such a long time since I've seen her without driving over to my parents place and dealing with family dynamics . .also have two oops 3! men! around me who seem to be in denial that this is the time to really be there for Mom . .
I've hesitated to come over as my father bought us a new computer as wonderful as that sounds it's not just a machine it's more hey Dad . . . I need a rest for a few days without dealing with machines and to really focus on Mom . . . how would you say this to such! a generous gift . . in the year thar Mom has been 'ill' so much as gone by the wayside and I feel 'forced' to clean up around the computer that works! to get the new one in and have neglected myself . .
plus it's snowballed into my marriage . . . which has been 'healing' for a while . . perhaps this belongs in how are you feeling but . . it landed here . . sigh . . thanks!
to I think 'Zone' . . . yes yes yes! one day does wonders!
seba
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