Hello William,
Thank you for your email. I am sorry to hear of your wife's passing. After so many years in a loving relationship and caring so dedicated for 12 years I am not surprised to hear that you are still struggling. I am going to include your email in the newsletter which will be going out shortly along with your email address and I am posting your request at the message boards at:
http://www.care-givers.com/ubb...m12/HTML/000013.htmlThere are also many support groups online where you can find additional support and comfort. If you just do a search online under google for grief and support for spouse, you will find many. You can also post and visit with us in the chats when they resume. You might also want to check what is available to you in your community in terms of support groups. Cancer care usually has programs as well as the Cancer Society. I am not sure where you are located... I am sure there are more avenues as well.. Was she in hospice? They help for a few years after the loss as well. Thereis no right or wrong way to grieve. There is only what you are feeling. It is important for you to slowly get back to living your own life more fully.. and I feel that your reaching out is a big step and I truly honor you. Here are some of the chats that I came up with when I did the search.
Griefnet.org has email groups,
http://griefnet.org/ Grow has chats
http://www.groww.org/ Heartprints
http://www.heartprints.org/ Beyond Indigo
http://www.death-dying.com/ Healing After Loss
http://healingafterloss.org/ Share Grief
http://www.griefcare.info/ http://www.rochester-info.com/endoflife.htmAlso William, we have some excellent professional articles on grief and bereavement that will also nurture and support you through this time at:
http://www.care-givers.com/pag...xperts/featured.htmlI hope the New Year will bring a gentle and nurturing healing for you...richest blessings
Gail