I'd like to have some input into a problem I've come across two many times in my role as a care giver.
My husband has postpoliosyndrome along with COPD. He's not suppossed to eat anything solid. When he does this things go along quite smoothly his breathing is fairly good, but when he decides he's having somrthing that's not on his diet, like cake or squarees or just plain old chicken dinner not pureed he gets sick and has major problems with his breathing. making my job harder.
Guess what he's been doing the past several days eating things he's not supossd to have.
Ask me if I'm upset.
I just don't know what to do. I've tried so hard to get him to see he shouldn't bee doing this but does he listen???? not always, then he gets into trouble and says I should not have done that.
We do this roundabout thing fairly often and I feel so (manythings) angry, frustrated, helpless.
I'd really like some suggestions cause I'm not feeling on top of things right at this moment.
If I sound rude I appolize but i'm just so tired we go through this when is he going to get the message he can't eeat solid food.
Please any helpful hints would be very much appreciated.