Thank God and Thank you for allowing me to get this out of my system. My dad is 79, lives with me, he has colen cancer (has the colos. bag) (5 Years free), diabetes & other health problems, etc. I have been his caregiver for 15 months since my mom passed. I have a brother who doesn't have time for my dad, (only people in his wife's family.) Today I decided to tell him how hard and overwhelming this is for me without any help because today i had to leave work and rush my dad to emergency room and he was admitted because he passed out at the Senior Community Center I send him to every day. These phone call are a little frightening, even at night when my dad fell out the bed last week, and last month i had to call 911 because he had problem breathing, another emergeny trip. (he has a phone in him room to call me if needed) I just wanted my brother to know the stress i am feeling and i need his help, WELL, he told me "I am getting as much help from him as I am going to get" (which is NO HELP at all) I must be acquiring the patience of Jesus because I told him "this conversation is ended because I am ready to SNAP OUT." I was feeling so HURT. That was a very cold statement. I prayed and put him in GOD's hands. But, I know GOD will continue to give me the peace,strength and patience I need to continue to care for my dad.