I moved my mom,who has lived with me and my husband for almost 6 yrs, to an assisted care adult home last wk. around Thanksgiving she forgot how to do her daily routines and didn't know how to use the phone to call me anymore and she turned 101 in Dec. I believed she was an accident waiting to happen, she wasn't safe to be left alone so I, with alot of input from other people, made the gut-wrenching decision to move her. it's a wonderful, caring home but she can't get over the fact that she "lives" there and I "don't know how she feels" and she didn't know she was going to end up like this and why has she lived so long, etc . it is so hard to listen to. how long does this go on? I try to let her talk but I feel really bad. I know I can't "fix" her but that's probably what I'm looking for. I feel no turmoil inside over this move so I believe I've done the right thing but I want her to be HAPPY. any words of wisdom from someone who's been there???