I am looking for input about my families housing. My father just passed away in Sept. Both Mom and Dad had cancer last year. Mom is now clean (for 6 months). We have been living with them for 6 months. My marriage and sanity are disappearing. Mom is 62, so she is still very young, however, she looks at me like a scared child when I try to give her anything to do(ie balance checkbook, call social security). I feel like I need to move out, but I also feel pulled to find a common living arrangement. My mom could live to be 100 or she could get the cancer back and pass on next year. I can't figure out what to do. Any ideas.