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I met an older scared woman from another state in my hospital. She came here because her granddaughter wanted her close by. As she got rid of everything she owned flew down to be with her granddaughter that she raised as in infant on up..The granddaughters husband wanted her out, the great grandkids were scared of her and he also said she stunk. My heart totally broke into pieces. I told her about a assisted living place near me and now she is their, she only had a sofa and a bed, dresser and a few outfits. I was stunned.. I told her I would lend her my tv and have bought her a few things and she is very appreciative. But I feel the granddaughter is telling her that I shouldn't come and see her. She loves me their..What can I do...some advice please..Julie
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Dear Julie:

What a sad story... my heart goes out to your friend. You have been an angel and have done so many warm and wonderful things for her. I am sure she truly appreciates you.

I am sorry that you feel her grandaughter is trying to come between you. Perhaps if you talk to her? Let her know that you value her grandmother as a friend and hope that she can understand that. Do try not to let her come between your relationship with her grandmother. It is not healthy to isolate our loved ones...

Good Luck, Glenda

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