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Hello and thanks for reading my post.  I hope some of you can help me with my situation.  I have had a friend for 2 years now...we really have had a close relationship.  My friend is not single, yet the 3 of us would get along great.  Perhaps our relationship grew too close and feelings were involved between the two of us.  As much as we tried,  it was hard to push those feeling aside.  I believe that was mutual ( I could be wrong).  Anyhow, we all got along fine.  Along comes a new person who wants to be friends and my friend just drops me, begins to ignore me, I am no longer the person who is on the other end receiving the text messages, phone calls, etc.  I called it out and had a discussion with my friend.  I didn't feel like there was much truth or concern coming from my friend.  I felt my friend was being defensive.  Others begin to notice the change in how my friend was no longer giving me attention the attention was now on the other person.  So much to the extreme that rumors started.  My friend and the new person apparently realized that they were being to obvious and have tried to change but I still see the interest amongst the two of them.  Now my friends other half has noticed but has kept quiet about it all.  My friend has still not changed towards me and I don't think things will change.  There is so much tension between us. My friend shows and reacts with so much resentment towards me.  I just don't know what to do.  I would have considered this to be a great friendship before the 3rd person arrived.  The two of us and several others make up a circle of friends.  I can't just leave my other friends if I walk away from the situation.  I don't know what to do.  I'm hurt and confused about the whole situation.

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