I am new to this board and my family and I are in need of some assistance. My grandmother was moved to a assisted living factility about 3 weeks ago. She did not want to go but she has dementia and had had a TIA stroke and my mother, aunt and uncle felt like it was the only safe thing to do. Ever since she has been there, she has been saying that she is leaving and not staying. She had periods of being happy there but now refuses to eat and won't get out of her pajamas. She has tried to convice my mother to move in with her and she will give her the home she owns. This is a situation that would be disastrous and not in the best interest of either of them which my mother realizes. What I am trying to find out is if this type of anger is normal. What suggestions do you have for my mother and aunt who live in the area and the ones who deal with her on a day to day basis? It's very hard on them as I am sure you all know and the guilt and pain of seeing their mom upset is hard to deal with at times. Thanks in advance for your help!