I have so many questions and issues I don't know where to start. I am a saty at home mom with 2 kids 7ears old and 7 months old. Newly married for less than a year and taking care of my Grandparents. My Granpa can't really walk, he has Parkinsons and is going downhill fast. My Grandmother had a stroke last year and is not quite all there.
I am so overwhelmed and depressed I don't know what to do. We put an in-law suite on their house for them. Construction is not quite done yet. It is livable though. My Grandmother is verbally abusive to my Grandfather (He has accidents). I feel she goes around the house looking for things to complain about. My family and I don't have one room in her house to call our own besides our bedrooms. My Grandfather is so depressed we think he is trying to O.D. on his medication. Doctors tell him that there is not much else they can do. He is 81. I am only 29 years old. I don't have time to eat, I have a 7 month old so I don't sleep, I would go to the doctor but who has time. I take them to approx 3 doctors appiontments a week. I have someone who comes 3 days a week to help with housework and hygenie for them but that isn't enough and I can't afford anything else. Medicaid is tapped out for home healthcare. Any suggestions? I gonna crack soon.