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At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves
learning-disabled children, the father of one of the
school's students delivered a speech that would never be
forgotten by all who attended.
After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a

"Everything God does is done with perfection. Yet, my son, Shay,
cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand
things as the children do. Where is God's plan reflected
in my son?"

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. "I believe," the father answered,"that
when God brings a child like Shay into the world, an opportunity
to realize the Divine Plan presents itself. And it comes in the
way people treat that child."
Then, he told the following story:
Shay and I walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were
playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they will let me play?"

Shay's father knew that most boys would not want him on their team.
But the father understood that if his son were allowed to play it
would give him a much-needed sense of belonging. Shay's father
approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could
play.The boy looked around for guidance from his teammates.
Getting none,he took matters into his own hands and said,
"We are losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning.
I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him up to bat
in the ninth inning."

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs
but was still behind by three. At the top of the ninth inning,
Shay put on a glove and played in the outfield. Although no hits
came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be on the field,
grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the
stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.
Now, with two outs and the bases loaded,the potential winning run
was on base. Shay was scheduled to be the next at-bat. Would the
team actually let Shay bat at this juncture and give away
their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was
all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the
bat properly, much less connect with the ball. However, as Shay
stepped up to the plate, the pitcher moved a few steps to lob the
ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The
first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher
again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly toward
Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow
ground ball to the pitcher. The pitcher picked up the soft
grounder and could easily have thrown the ball to the first
baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have ended the
game. Instead, the pitcher took the ball and threw it on a high
arc to right field, far beyond reach of the first baseman.

Everyone started yelling, "Shay, run to first. Run to first."
Never in his life had Shay ever made it to first base. He
scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone
yelled, "Run to second, run to second! By the time Shay was
rounding first base, the right fielder had the ball.
He could have thrown the ball to the second baseman for a tag.
But the right fielder understood what the pitcher's intentions
had been, so he threw the ball high and far over the third
baseman's head. Shay ran towards second base as the runners ahead
of him deliriously circled the bases towards home. As Shay reached
second base, the opposing shortstop ran to him, turned him in the
direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third!" As Shay
rounded third, the boys from both teams were screaming, "Shay!
Run home!" Shay ran home, stepped on home plate and was
cheered as the hero, for hitting a "grand slam" and winning
the game for the team.
"That day," said the father softly with tears now rolling down
his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of the
Divine Plan into this world."

And now, a footnote to the story. We all send thousands of
jokes through e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes
to sending messages regarding life choices, people think twice
about sharing. The crude, vulgar, and sometimes the obscene pass
freely through cyberspace, but public discussion of decency is
too often suppressed in school and the workplace. If you are
thinking about forwarding this message, you are probably thinking
about which people on your address list aren't the "appropriate"
ones to receive this type of message.
The person who sent this to you believes that we can all make a
difference. We all have thousands of opportunities a day to help
realize God's plan. So many seemingly trivial interactions between
two people present us with a choice:
Do we pass along a spark of the Divine? Or do we pass up that
opportunity, and leave the world a bit colder in the process?

You have two choices now:
1 Ignore this.
2. Forward it to the people you care about.

You know the choice I made. Thank you for reading this....
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Thank you...That brought tears to my eyes...
It is a wonderful thing when common decency and kindness can surpass greed, or a need to win.
And for any parents reading this I have a true story that hopefully you could teach your children the implications of making fun of someone with a...problem.
When I was in public school, about Grade 4 I think, it was our yearly speech time. This was when everyone had to write a speech about anything, and present it in front of the class with just small cue cards to help.
One of my classmates had a kidney problem..I am not sure exactly what it entailed but we all knew he had this medical problem.
When it was his turn to get in front of the class with his speech he began, and shortly into it he wet his pants...Everyone noticed the large wet spot growing and growing and most of the kids began snickering and laughing.
I felt so bad for him and held back my tears.
The teacher I guess, unsure as to how to handle this let him continue, and red-faced and stammering he did continue.
By the end of his speech most of the other kids had found this so hilarious and I wondered how he would ever be the same again.
I could tell for the longest time afterward that this really bothered him, and if I hadn't forgotten after all these years I'm sure he hasn't either.
This...topped with so many incidents I have seen in my life of children harrassing and making fun of other children with defects or deformities is just so sad.
So parent...Please try to instill in your children a kindness towards others less fortunate...I know it's hard because kids will be kids and the peer pressure thing...But sometimes one incident can affect someone for life...

Hi Warren...

It's so good to hear from you... We've missed you in the chats... hope all is well with you, Donna and those lovely young adults in your life...

This posting overwhelmed me in tears... thanks so much for posting it... it truly is beautiful...

and Mary Ann your post was wonderful as well...both uplifted me tremendously today

Love & light

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