Hello...I suppose I have learned to eliminate the negatives from my life and just recently had to let go of a long time friend who decided I wasn't important to her any more. It was a litle stressful while going through the final stages of ending the relationship, but feel much better and relieved that the struggle (on my end) is now in the past. I am getting closer to dealing with my sister's death and am ready to bounce back in to life, I know she is watching me. I look forward to saving and going on that long over due vacation (been about 6 years).... I've found an old gf from jr. high and we are now back in regualer contact after 51 years!! Life can certainly throw us a curve or two and sometimes close together, but I know it is best to beat those challenges one by one and forge ahead with positive thinking. We only have "one live to live".