Try this website http://www.floridamedicaid.com/index.htm. It looks like the medicaid rules in FL are pretty favorable at least compared to Indiana where I live. Income limit is 1809/per month. There is a Well-Spouse Resource allowance of $95,100. Additionally it looks like the home is protected and exempt as long as a spouse or dependant continues to live in that home. Check out the website. It gives lots of examples. Hope this helps. Stay strong. You are in a very tough situation. Thinking of you.