I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's failing health. I am glad to hear that you are able to take a leave from work and be with your mom full time. That has to take so much stress off of you. I do hope that you are able to find someone to come in, even if just for an hour or two, to give you a break, just to have a little time for yourself. You are under a lot of stress right now, taking care of your mom, and knowing your mother in law's health is failing, with your husband caring for her and you not having his support at home, I'm sure it is difficult for you. Just try to remember to do something for yourself.
Bridget, I remember your trip to New York with your mom -- it wasn't that long ago. I bet you are so happy that you did it. What wonderful memories you have from that trip. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers...