Sk, I am so sorry. Out here we have what is called a "payee". Someone who handles the clients money and bills for them when they are not able to. Is there any way (ask a social worker) you can have this tremendous burden passed on to a "payee"? Please try to get to the bottom of what causes you to become so down on yourself. I realize it is *about* your mom and her care, but there seems to be something deeper and i think hubby is right on! If you are trying to pay a "debt", I think you have paid the price already.
Running late getting ready for work and so I need to keep this short. ttyl. Smile there girl!!!