Thanks Gail : - )
I am keeping lots of her things. the things that were important to her also. all her crochet hooks and her sewing basket with her prayer books and little things she had in it are going to be placed in "my room".
I still have all her clothes. and I am keeping the pink bathrobe she always wore. I'll never get rid of that.
It is the daily things I don't want to do. cleaning and cooking...I could care less about.
Thank you all for your help and wisdom.