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{{{{{Patty}}}}}}

Be gentle and nurturing with yourself angel.. you are grieving.. and while you may have a picture of the way you are supposed to feel, you are grieving your loss and healing in your own way.... are these so called "normal things" one is supposed to do the daily things.. that hold little meaning in this time for you? Be gentle.. sleep, cry, rest.. do only what you feel comfortable with...

As Chris described.. the firsts of so many things will take you through the year.. and subsequent years.. my mother passefd nov 2004 and xmas and the new year holiday passed the first year as if it were nothing to me.. this year in 2005 it hit me that she was gone... different than the year before and it was a huge adjustment for me...

as I have said so many times here at the site.. there is no right or wrong way to grieve and heal.. there is only the way that we4 are guided individually to heal as we need to..

A warm glow took over me as I read that you would be painting your mom's room and making it a specail room for you...

Don't push yourself to clean all her things or give them away... Let some of them reside with you for as long as you need..

you may also want to write dauly in a journal... writing about your sadness - writing to your mother through the words.. it is not only carthartic... it will bring you much wisdom, guidance and direction...

please keep us posted... we are here for you Patty...

blessings... may your healiung be gentle and nurturing

gail
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