Thanks for the AA idea. Maybe I will. I just feel that it's been SO long since she had a drink that it might seem weird me bringing my problems to that forum. It's worth a try I guess.
Hopefully my therapist will be able to help me too. She realizes I am caught between two controlling people - M and H. I'm not super strong and not really cut out for dealing with these two. I'm more of a 'go with the flow' type of person, but the the FLOW keeps banging my head against the rocks. Not a great feeling.
I appreciate the support from you all while you deal with your own challenges. Thank you!