I am starting to check out giving up my rights as an Agent with my Dad's POA. My only connection to him is emotionally. His is a durable one with 3 siblings having all rights to end of life, financial, healthcare and all in one really. As my brothers will not talk to me or communicate with me and I the primary caregiver. I don't want any money connected to his estate, just peace. I have been burned with my life messed up by my sister, my in-laws, my mom, and now my Dad has no idea his sons don't want any part of him. Can I legally decline to be an Agent as his POA requires all 3 of us to make all the decisions ---- how in the world can we do this if no one talks to each other, and I'm drained trying to do what is right. Dad thinks all of his children love him, and no - he taught us what we know --- I just had more heart to do what is right.
Any feedback --- I know the end of life issue "could" be tough --- and I know probate will have to be handled by an attorney, not me. Any feedback. Just can't have my life with my husband messed up another time. Already lost "all" to include, home, financies, "all" to pull out and start over at the age of 53. 59 now! Any advice! Thanks! Love you guys!