Hello all... well I am back and as you can see I am responding to postings... the trip was shall we say a disaster.. the weather gorgeous even when mixed with rain, food awful, service awful... and I am not quite sure why this was my experience... also my thyroid went out of balance... I did have some wonderful, healing massages and fun time with my friend and new people I met... the service charges for internet usage was $50 a day...need I say more as to why I wasn't present here?
Even when I came home, having spoken with my mother a few times, there was a message from her social worker in the rehab saying she would be dismissed on the weekend.. I am not really sure whether or not my mom is ready for the discharge.. since I haven't seen her in ten days I am not sure if it is just emotionally or if it is physical as well.. they work her constantly monitoring in everything.. how she gets in and out of bed, dresses, cooks in a kitchen, bathes, to see when she is holding her breath, to make her aware.. etc etc...a very thorough program.. however, some of it can be overwhelming for her and until I see her, I won't know for sure..
So, I asked my mother to be mindful and tune into her needs for no one could do it as well as she could. I explained that she needed to know if her concerns were purely emotional, or if they were physical at this point as well. She said she understood so I will learn more in the next few days...
It's good to be back and to know that the boards can still function even if I am away... it's easier on me and less pressure this way... blessings to you all