Thank you so much for all your wonderful words. I appreciate them so much. Nothing has changed much since I posted last week, I haven't made that appointment yet, but it's on my to do list. I'm grateful for this board and the kind people on it. I like the comment about being "task oriented"... I am a very emotional person and DH is a very methodical-analytical type. I need to control my blow-ups and try to work harder at making "honey-do" lists and hopefully eventually honey-do MIL into another living situation.
Thank you again -- i'll be back and will be surfing other posts and hopefully learn from all of you!