welcome...I am so pleased you finally made it to the boards... you certainly have your hands full..
in regard to your email...if there is no equity in the house and you won't stand to gain...can you let it go...Our circumstances and experiences teach us so much. Please don't panic...try to find some time for yourself to breathe in deeply and relax...still yourself and your breath and let go of all your worry, doubts and fears...give it over to God, the higher power and the Universe...ask for guidance and direction... You are so caught up emotionally and you don't really have the opportunity to heal one issue before having to deal with another... You are very wise and answers will come to you if you can still your mind and breathe freely to allow them to reveal themselves to you. I know you have it in you and can do it...Richest blessings angel...sending a lot of love your way.
Love & light