Thank you so much for the info, Barb. I appreciate it very much. I do have some info regarding their various accounts, and my dad gave me checks to deposit into his savings and checking accts. I copied all the deposit slips and checks for my reference.
I have also started to take business cards from my parents' apt. for contact people's names and phone numbers. I will now focus on doing what you advised me to do.
Since my dad can no longer take the mini-bus from where he lives to the bank, I will be making his deposits so I think he might be more obliged now to give me some of the missing info.
The problem is I can't even balance my own checkbook. I plan on buying "Quicken" for my financial needs as well as for my dad. This way I can make sense of the data.
Feel better soon, and again, thank you so much.