I hear you... It is just awful that your stepson is fighting such health issues caused by back surgery at such a young age. I can't help but wonder how many health issues that the elderly have are caused by previous treatment plans. I oftentimes wonder if the cure isn't really worse than what ails you
Anyhow, take those deep breaths and think positive thoughts! That is so important, as you know, for your own health. Meanwhile, we're here for you dear heart!