Girls, thank you so much for your love and support.
You both are more than likely right. We did not have a close relationship before, so why should it be different now.
I guess I just thought that this might be a crossroads for us to do some healing together. But I think it is in a way.....they have chosen to go their way and I guess I am going to say....goodbye and good riddance. I know Mom would not be happy with me saying that but she knew for quite some time how I felt about the way they treated her.
I have to do what is right for me,and I think keeping my distance might be just the best thing.
Mom's estate has been settled and the little bit of inheritance that we got is probably all they were after anyway. I don't want to see how they squander that away.
I think I am just going to concentrate on my kids and my grandkids. I have wonderful support from my hubby's family.
See, I had one too many glasses of wine last night...........
I know in my heart that this is the best thing to do. sometimes it just hurts....