I understand how you feel. It is a bit much, and I have basically severed ties almost all of my family. It is difficult to be in the position where people you always believed would be there for you all of a sudden are not. I'm sorry for how this is going for you. All you can do is tell them to be there or not. If they must put their two cents in, then they must be around more. If not, oh well. If you ignore them, they WILL go away. Best of Luck!