Thank you for the kind words. I am in Counseling, in order to be able to deal with Mother and all the problems concerning her. I am going to FL this month for two weeks to be with my sons. Not one of my sisters have made the effort to come out here to stay with Mother. I have not seen my sons for two and a half years, so I am going. The sisters have known since March that I was going in June so this is not just a last minute thing. After I come back from FL there will be some changes made. If I like it in FL I will be moving there. I will give Mother the choice of going with me into an assisted living place, going to live with one of her other daughters, or staying here in an assisted living place. If I don't like in in FL I will stay here in this area, but will get out from under that house and all that is costing me. Will give Mother the choice of living with me where I choose to live or an assisted living place.
Anyway after all of this with my three sisters and their lack of caring about anyone except themselves, I have just become an only child. When anything does happen to Mom I will never see or speak to them again.