You are an angel! I am sorry for the loss of your DH in 2004. I can imagine how hard the holidays are for you still.
I will try to be gentle with myself. I am dreading the next month or so as the house is stripped of everything that he had "collected". He had so many interests and I just ramble around some days not knowing what to do with myself. Thank you for your caring support Jane...
Love and Hugs from Glenda