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Glenda: Just to let you know I see you feel you need to "clean out the memories" -- You know, there is no rush! I did my sister's (4 bags of pictures - she was married 4 times, so imagine how careful I had to be as her 4 boys all had different Dads). Lots of humor there, then I did my Mom's, then I did my Mother and Father-in-laws. You know, I did this other people who wanted it done. I was so numb, I don't know what I was doing. I bet a "job" to have a reason to get up and go might help you better for now than cleaning out the memories. You have lived in the memories --- so you may decide later you want the there! Just a thought! All is so fresh for you ----- yet, sometimes with cancer and hospice --- you have done the grieving way before they have passed. Thinking of your brokeness for now. And, the holidays don't help! You know, maybe a memorial in your home or yard or something to help you through. I did red-birds for my Mom, and early on --- red birds came to my yard so often. You have to "feel" this grief, and it is so fresh! Getting the energy and "desire" to get out so early on is not easy ---- somehow I hope you can find a way! Being alone in all this can't be easy either. I assume you are, but you're never alone ---- there is a higher power that's got his arms outstretched to give you all the love you need. Cry for now! Love & prayers ........ Vickie
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