Hi Sk, sorry your comp. wasn't cooperating, they can be annoying and fun at the same time. It is amazing when we can look back on certain things, episodes in our lives and see how much growth was needed. And I beleive you're right... we don't just wake up one day and have the confidence that was missing. I suppose our growth is like a flower that needs love and nurturing and if we water it too much well then we know next time not to. I hope your day is going well.