Finding such true friends is a real blessing. I wanted to comment on this because I recently had to come to terms with losing two friends that I couldn't even understand what had happened and why I was losing them in the first place. I even tried to hold on.... only to realise that you can't hold onto friendships if the other person has already let go. The thought of it still makes me sad, you share so much with someone and they simply turn their back on you. Believe me I find it very difficult to trust people, it takes awhile to form friendships and to develop trust, and when my trust is broken it takes awhile for me to get over it. I've heard via other mutual friends that they have changed toward them too... so its not just me.... I still feel concerned for them though. I truly hope they are okay.