God bless you. It is so hard to watch someone you love get weaker and weaker. How is hospice working out for you? Are they helping with the "end of life" issues a lot?
I am curious, (if you don't mind my asking) about the fluid pills that your dad is taking. Do they actually help him retain fluids or do they dehydrate? They sound similar to a prescription that they gave my father when he came home on hospice. I can't remember the name of it, however, ...
Meanwhile, stay strong Sue, and listen to your heart. Love to you and your father (even on those not so good days). I know I often wish Dad was his "old" self and not so old. Take care of yourself.
Hugs to Sue from Glenda