{{Cheri}}
I have had this situation with my dad while he was living here. There isn't an easy solution to this dilemma I am afraid. I resorted to bed baths, and when he refused those I told him that he would have to either shower or a bedbath because he *STINKS*, and was living in my familyroom off my kitchen. He is a very proud man, and I think he was insulted, but it worked.
Hugs,
Robin~