Adding to the day (posted under What are you Feeling), I rec'd an email from my sister who is taking dad in July for a week. She tells me her son (31) is going on vacation for the week of 4th of July. Asked if I could bring my father there, and we could also celebrate my mom's birthday. Now, maybe I am asking for too much, but why can't they come here and get him and his things? I don't want to travel anywhere for any reason. I just want some relief. So my response was I was planning on a party for my daughter's birthday, and having friends over for the 4th. So the next response was can't I make some arrangements to bring have him before that? I said sure..let me know what day you are coming.